‘Gold Digger’ shares her dating rules for women

24-year-old Ella Freimann from Miami describes herself as a “level-up coach”.

The woman makes TikTok videos sharing her wisdom with others.

She argues that women should never split the bill with men and that men should see women as “investments.”

Her lessons include insights like, “Making demands isn’t just about money, it’s about quantifying the effort a man is willing to put in.”

She posted this message along with the hashtags “princess treatment,” “dating advice for girls,” and “dating advice 101.”

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Ella has a number of important rules for women, aside from never splitting the bill with a man.

Ella doesn’t advocate coffee dates, telling her followers, “Being asked out for coffee is his way of telling you that he doesn’t see any value in you. So they are not worth investing in.”

Ella also advises women not to date men they have known for four days or more.

She said: “If a man hasn’t proposed a date within three days of meeting you. He’s either a broke man or has no interest in pursuing you.”

The content creator has faced backlash online but defended her views to NeedToKnow.co.uk.

She explained, “By sharing the bill, I agree to connect with a man who doesn’t know his role in a relationship and expects me to be 50 percent the man he’s not.”

Friemann says she learned her attitude towards dating from her traditional parents. She said: “I was fortunate to grow up with both of my parents, so I had a clear example of how gender roles lay the foundation for a healthy and lasting relationship.

“I grew up with a caring father and mother who had the luxury of raising their children and being a homemaker.”

She added: “Also I think women should learn a few things from gold diggers, they’re always asking for what they want.”

Friemann believes that men who let their partners pay bills expose themselves to abuse.

She wrote in a video, “The more bills a woman pays in a relationship, the more the man puts himself in a position to be spoken to and treated disrespectfully.”

Writing to her female followers, she said: “The world opens up for you when you embrace your femininity and start dating wealthy men. Dating broke men will only stress you out.”